Experiment with Love
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The hardest person in the world to be married to is the one who thinks they have nothing to learn, that there is no way for them to improve or grow.
If you are this person, then please do everyone a favor and take yourself out of the “I want to get married” pool. It’s better this way. Trust me.
The problem is that a person who knows everything does not have an attitude of experimentation. Experimentation is so important for the success of your relationship. And not just in the bedroom.
Experimenting with your relationship can take many different forms. Maybe it’s starting the day with a hug all week. How does that change your relationship? Maybe it’s making a point to look your significant other in the eye when she’s talking. Does that change how much she nags? What would happen if you asked for what you wanted instead of pouted? Were you more or less likely to get what you wanted?
Being open to experimentation means that you acknowledge that you don’t know everything. A couple that experiments together trusts each other. Experiments communicate curiosity about your partner and your relationship. It means that you’re open to changing, to growing and to learning.
How can you experiment with love this week?
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